"Wifey type"

Most guys instantly recognise wifey material when they see it...

Its that something about a girl, which cliche as it sounds you don't rarely come across. Most times she got good mummy qualities, she always seem more mature than her age, may not be a perfect cook but you know she got a few favourites she can rustle up when its life and death, and somehow in some ways she always seems in control. 

Beyond that its the intangibles; a combination or a chemistry that just works, they aint perfect but they fit perfectly. She somehow seems to understand you, meets you where you are and is content to wait there with you till you get where you need to be. She knows you're not perfect and doesn't hold it against you.

Its not a body type, because body's can and will change, for good or bad or different. Its not sex, and its not a look because all these change easier than a personality and values. Its being unapologetically you with someone else, and having them reciprocate because something in her resonates with you...its when someone who was once a stranger feels like family.

She is always there when you need her, to the point where you take her for granted, yet she forgives. She's the first one you think of when you read this, she's the one you know deep down you could spend the rest of your life with, with no problems. She's that one that scares you, cus you know she could be forever, but you don't want the rest of your life to start just yet.

As a young stud who wants to play the field sometimes it might be too much for you, you want to settle down with her because you know..you know she wont settle for anything less, but not because she verbalized that or made demands, but because you recognize, and realise that's what she deserves.

But there's a little problem, and that problem is those fine ass 6,456, 899 million sexy pieces of stranger pum out there in the wild you haven't gotten to experience yet. I mean what happens if you eventually run into Beyonce and she falls into a pool of love with you, hows she gonna react when she finds out you have a girlfriend? what if it puts her off and ruins everything? How you gna live with yourself?

I feel your pain bro, you wanna settle down but these are your Channing Tatum years; you're just coming into your own as a man; you've finally mastered the abillity to last past a minute, and that stroke game is evolving so you're trying your best to test it out on the maximum amount of young ladies.

You probably got a job now, your own little bachelor pad (can't be planning booty calls around your mums prayer meetings) and quite possibly your own car...so in essence you are now James Bond.

So why should you surrender all that to the love of one woman?

The thing about fast girls and stranger pum, no matter how exciting and enticing it seems... is that its fraught with danger (and STDS) and equally importantly; doesn't last forever. 

What's the joy in travelling if you have no home to come back to? at the end of the day bro, when all the chips are down... you find yourself alone, or worse be that old guy alone on the dancefloor doing the elctric slide, one move away from dislocating your hip. 

or worse you could be this guy

or this guy...

Even with dope lines breh some of these girls ain having it, if you're chasing after girls and catching their attention with the promise of excitement, when that goes..so will they. Its an empty type of satisfaction, no substance and no sustainability..and in 2015 its all about sustainability bro. 

So ......

if you find you a good girl and she ticks all the right boxes. you can take your time to make sure she's the right one but don't make her wait too long because somebody else will claim her, trust me...and you'll find yourself years down the line in a booth beside Drake, making calls from Marvins room.

Supreme Sadness

The choice is yours

Till next time.